Join us for more enlightening exploration and discovery at the…

In Life and Leadership Enneagram 

In depth Personality Learning – further exploration involves this advanced workshop, group discussions, towards deeper self-awareness, purposeful living, and enriched interpersonal dynamics.


Eastern Bay of Plenty (tbc)

New Zealand

18, 19, 20 October 24

Friday, 1pm-5:30pm

Saturday, 8:30pm - 5:30pm

Sunday 8:30pm - 5pm



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As human beings we are often not centred in our true best self – coming more from a reactive self.  Lean more about how to be more your true self, more often.

When ego is at play we can experience internal conflict or a lack of unity with others – often the case when communicating with loved ones. This can lead to us feeling stuck, unbalanced or out of alignment. There is a way out of this!

Respecting differences between people truly enhances relationships with all the people you care about, not just a primary partner.

Your Enneagram Journey is incomplete without learning the advanced material. The model is complex, and takes time to integrate. You will gain further insights into your ego personality and the patterns you’d rather not have. We feel you will now be wanting to delve into the deeper system, moving beyond the sense of ‘that was nice to know’.
Now we are looking into the Enneagram Types at a deeper and more influential level, to gain
more awareness and self-leadership around:

      
  • Understanding our core drives and working with them
  • Levels of Development – Health Levels within our Enneagram Type
  • How to grow and mature in our type
  • Better managing our relationships
  • Being a leader of people
  • Avoiding self-sabotage
  • Spirit and healing – from the inside out
  • Find greater fulfilment – from ego to truer self.

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Each type has their habitual patterns of thinking and behaving. Now, with basic understanding,
you can begin to work on resolving and evolving issues you’re experiencing. Discover the
possibilities… and new ways to make your life more enjoyable, purposeful and peace filled…
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You are now ready to…
      
  • Find out about your Soul Child’s yearning for you 
  • Increase your levels of awareness and raise your consciousness
  • Learn loving ways to communicate with loved one’s
  • Discover and transform the in-depth parts of your ego, evolving ‘self’ even more as you find the richness within      
  • Become a better person who is more understanding and accepting of others who are different to you.

Learn drivers and instinctive urges of ego:

We will help you unlock your inner potential so you can excel in your professional field. Some of the benefits of our trainings are:
  • The Triadic Self 
    Feeling; Thinking; Doing and what that really means – learning how
    to blend these three major areas of life to be more effective and aligned.
    • Which of your intelligences is driving behaviour – head, heart or gut?
  • Discovering the Soul Child of each Type
  • Discovering the Variants:  
    Social – adapting,  Sexual –  attraction, Self-preservation – safety, comfort, health
  • What it means for you to be driven by the Variants, as you are
  • Becoming more open and self honest
  • Understanding Type – Lost Childhood Messages Passions, Vices, Virtues, Holy Ideas
  • Influencing & Leading people different to you
  • Relationships between the Types
    Who gets along best… or not.
    • Guidelines on managing relationships between Ennea types
  • Dis-identifying with your Type and your Patterns
  • Leadership:
    Influencing & Leading people different to you
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(The bold ones are major topics for the sessions)
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Levels of Development

The Levels Of Development information is a key contribution by Don Riso from Enneagram Institute. The Levels are a measure of our consciousness, our ability to be present and to maintain contact with the moment. It is not only used to explain variations between people of the same type, but also used to understand the level of health within a type through measuring our degree of identification with our personality structure, how liberated and aware, or how defended and shut down.

For ease of understanding, the 9 Levels are usually grouped into 3 groups as follows:

  • Healthy – levels 1 through 3 (high functioning aspects of the type)
  • Average – levels 4 through 6 (normal behaviours of the type)
  • Unhealthy – levels 7 through 9 (deeply dysfunctional manifestations of the type)
At unhealthy level “7-9”, a lot of our destructive patterns of behaviour are driven by a core fear that relates to our core Enneagram type, we become so identified with our personality structure, and out of touch with reality. 

At an average level “4-6” (most people operate in this area), we are less reactive, but the core fear still drives and motivates behaviours to a large extent. 

At healthy level “1-3”, we no longer identify with our ego, we are more ‘self-aware’ and can let go of a particular self-image, have more understanding of our core fears and move beyond the limitations of our core Enneagram type.

The level at which we operate changes throughout the day, we generally move up and down Levels within a range. This is also generally true for us  at any point in our life.

For example, we may have operated between levels 4 through 6  earlier in life, and operating at levels 3 through 5 in later part of our life.

Healthy Levels

Level 1 – Liberation (Ego transcended-balance and freedom)
Level 2 – Psychological Capacity (Ego is identified as an ideal-self)
Level 3 – Social Value (Ego operating in a constructive way)

Average Levels

Level 4  – Imbalance (Ego-role assumed, defences increased)
Level 5 – Interpersonal Control (Manipulative & Defended)
Level 6 – Overcompensation (Ego inflation, conflicts with others)

Unhealthy Levels

Level 7 – Violation (Survival tactic, neurotic)
Level 8 – Delusion and Compulsion (Major personality disorder)
Level 9 – Pathological Destructiveness (Psychosis, breakdown)

Something to consider | Effect is beautiful 

As human beings we are often not centred in our true best self – coming more from a reactive self.  Lean more about how to be more your true self, more often.

When ego is at play we can experience internal conflict or a lack of unity with others – often the case when communicating with loved ones. This can lead to us feeling stuck, unbalanced or out of alignment. There is a way out of this!

Respecting differences between people truly enhances relationships with all the people you care about, not just a primary partner.

Your Enneagram Journey is incomplete without learning the advanced material. The model is complex, and takes time to integrate. You will gain further insights into your ego personality and the patterns you’d rather not have. We feel you will now be wanting to delve into the deeper system, moving beyond the sense of ‘that was nice to know’.

Pre-requisite to join us…
You have been a participant on
“An Enneagram Experience"
in person or online with Mark Klaassen & Eileen Darwin

Workshoping self for personal evolution:

You will receive an abundant and detailed resource manual and we will be covering many new topics

  • This will be a more workshop style event for travellers who want to deeper and do
    some work together and on yourselves
  • Yes, it will include some new topics, but will be more centred around how we work with
    our own self for personal evolution and letting go
  • 7 Tools for Personal Growth and a Transformational Pathway
  • Getting your Ego Self unblocked
  • Understanding Type Inside – The Lost Childhood Messages



Pre-requisite to join us…
You have been a participant on
“An Enneagram Experience” Webinar Series" (or in person) 
with Mark Klaassen & Eileen Darwin

Eileen Darwin and Mark Klaassen
Bring their rich experience, knowledge and wisdom together to provide a safe and profound space for you to explore SELF in a exponentially deep and profound way.

Here is your opportunity now to navigate life and reactions in an entirely authentic way without being made wrong, an example of, guilty, rejected, isolated, hurt, ignored, attention seeking or other often experienced human conditions.   

This is for the change makers of the world, the people who are making a difference.  This programme is for you to come into a remarkable new appreciation of self and others.

“Thought provoking, enlightening. A chance to reflect on self, see the world through eyes of others using a framework that mirrors the truth. A safe, supportive space.”


— 

Christine Payne, UK

“Thanks Mark & Eileen. I always appreciate the opportunity to learn from you. This workshop has presented opportunity for introspection plus great learning about how others do their world. I appreciate your respectfulness and the gentle way in which you deliver this material. I have really enjoyed the mix of taking in new information, reinforcing existing understanding and providing the opportunity to talk. I take something profound away each time.”


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Ros Lee, Tauranga NZ



“The Enneagram provides invaluable practical insight into understanding myself and others. Mark and Eileen’s facilitation of the course ensured a deep understanding of the material, in a supportive, collegial environment.”


— Lisa Mandic, Auckland. Business Consultant
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